Carmy's full name is Carmen Michael Berzatto. "Carmy" is a nickname derived from Carmen. His middle name, Michael, is shared with his deceased older brother—a fact that carries emotional weight throughout the show.
The Berzatto family is Italian-American, and the names reflect that heritage.
About the Name Carmen
Carmen as a Male Name: While Carmen is more commonly a female name in English-speaking countries, it's traditionally a unisex name in Italian and Spanish cultures.
Italian Heritage: The Berzatto family is Italian-American. Carmen is a fitting name for an Italian family in Chicago.
The Nickname: Nobody calls him Carmen—he's Carmy to everyone. The nickname is both affectionate and practical in a kitchen setting.
The One Exception: His mother Donna sometimes calls him Carmen, especially in emotional moments. The full name carries weight.
The Berzatto Family Names
Michael "Mikey" Berzatto: Carmy's older brother. His death before the series begins drives the entire story.
Donna Berzatto: Their mother, played by Jamie Lee Curtis. A complicated figure who loves her sons while contributing to their trauma.
Natalie "Sugar" Berzatto: Carmy's sister. She works in the business side of the restaurant.
The Father: Notably absent from the show. The Berzatto father isn't discussed, suggesting another family wound.
How Chefs Are Named
In the Kitchen: Chefs often go by nicknames or last names. "Chef Carmy" or "Chef Berzatto" would be formal; just "Carmy" is how his crew knows him.
The "Chef" Title: When addressed formally, it's "Chef"—just Chef. The title carries weight in kitchen culture.
Legacy Name: Carmen taking over The Original Beef means the Berzatto name lives on through the restaurant, even as it transforms into The Bear.